Don Gardner - SBU-13
(01-05-08)
Don Gardner Hello Jim,
Sorry I missed the reunion, Looked like it was a
great time? I would like to know if you have
another? Hopefully the turnouts will continue to
grow...
I've been attempting to come up with some great
story for your page, but haven't had much luck
just thinking of one... usually it turns into a
reflection of decades past, when we were all
younger and much wilder... I remember the First
day I checked aboard, only because it was the
same day that the Challenger Space Shuttle
exploded over Florida 01-28-1986...It was a very
solemn day, and no other event could possibly
shadow the horrific accident of losing 7 US
Hero's in space, Probably one of the most tragic
events of the time, yet none of us had the
foresight to see what horrific events man was
intentionally capable of. I was assigned to
757, but she was currently on location at San
Clemente, So I had the opportunity to work with
PCF crews sanding and painting them for their
decommissioning to soon follow... When The 757
finally came in and rescued me from the constant
ratt-a-tat of the classic needle gun, I was to
learn the 757 would be down for a spell for
Maintenance. But at least I would get to meet
the "Crew", I was to be assigned the next few
years... BMC Wallace... Great Man! One of the
first experiences with BMC was while we were
underway at San Clemente, of course the head was
inoperative, So BMC grabs the waste bucket,
newspaper, and goes up to the main deck to
read... I could only imagine a boat, plane
coming by and think Chiefs bleach white ass was
a distress signal... Then there was EN1 Harry
Lowrey, First time I met him he was down in the
engine room greasy as usual, and the first
comment after he met me was "Great, another FN
Deck ape...". Shortly there after, I realized
Harry was the driving force behind inspiring me
to get my fat ass in shape... I had a hell of a
time running, And he talked and inspired me to
do better...SN Salvadore... nicest kid you'd
ever get to know... He cleaned up after the lot
of us, and after a little berating, would just
smile ... BM3 Shivers (Rod, SugarBear), Only guy
I know, who actually put a drill instructor
"In-Line!", and his sentence was to serve the
rest of his term with the enlisted at SBU 13.
Definitely one of the closest friends I had at
13. Also the Quarter Back who was responsible
for our victory over SBU 12 in the fateful
Play-off game of 87... I remember long weekends
working to make the 757 ready for the following
week and CMDR Elson would come walking down the
pier in his coveralls to lend a hand, if nothing
else, just to talk... He showed me what true
leadership was about.
There were so many friends... faces and
names hard to put together, but none the less, I
considered most brothers... and many I would
have laid down my life. I've never held a job
or position since that instills the same love,
devotion, or brotherhood that I felt I had at
the boat units. I feel this is in part because
you will not find any civilian job, that all
will lay it on the line. There is no true
sacrifice, or love of your brothers and
sisters... The closest feeling I had since, was
obviously 9-11-2001, when all Americans stopped,
and thought, My God... I need to do something, I
need to make a difference... and you see the
change. Unfortunately many went out bought US
Flags made in foreign country's (some
Afghanistan) and hung them from their homes
and cars, and that was it... Then those feelings
died off, and many forgot, and the Flags wither
and disappear... Then there are those who know
"we live in Dangerous times", and those who
Stand, and resist, and fight for our rights to
be Oblivious... They understand how it feels. I
am thank full for all those who stood with me,
and helped me grow into the man I am today...
Thank you Jim, You were one of the Great
CPO's that helped me grow. You were in very good
company, BMC Wallace, BMC Calfy, BMC Spencer,
BMC Frede, And many many more... Thank you for
your commitment to this web site, so others can
remember and reflect. So often we get caught up
in the every day doldrums of life that we forget
to remember...
Take Care Jim, and let me know if any other
events might be happening there in San Diego, or
anywhere... Maybe we can get together and go
dive, or just share a beer...
I'm 5th over from Harry (on the 1st Gulf Det.
Photo)
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